Finding Yourself

It is easier to find yourself
When you put selfishness behind
And look to be a source of help
As there is more of you to find

Measure success with your hand and heart
Achieve well for a higher end
Life's problems lighten. Lessons impart
As blessings from on high descend

A fresh perspective will grow and bloom
In the light of love you'll feel
The miracle of service opens room
To know that love from God is real

I am reading Finding Your Life by Elder D. Todd Christofferson in the March Ensign 2016

He talks about being in tune with and savoring the things of God taking up one's cross and losing one's life as the way to finding an abundant and eternal life.

"He that finethhis life shall lose it:and he that loseth it for my sake shall find it." Matthew 10:39